Ruth's Request
- Suggested by Naomi
- Executed by Ruth
- Agreed to by Boaz
Ruth: Week 4 – Chapter 3
Hi Ladies! I hope you have all had a good week. Mine has been good but busy as always. I apologize for my semi-absence the past few days. If I seemed MIA, I was still here but standing in the background. Can you believe we are almost done with Ruth? It seems like it is going to end before it gets started. That’s okay; one of the points to this study was “manageable”. I hope we’ve accomplished that together.
I enjoyed my approach last week and diving into the “white space”. I keep telling you this but it’s because I really mean it – I love all your comments! I think that is why I like writing here. It’s sorta like my time to comment.
So, here we are in the third chapter of Ruth. I think this chapter is my favorite of the four. It’s where the love story takes place. I’m not going to rehash the entire chapter but just tell you the parts that stood out to me.
We all see where Naomi tells Ruth to go to Boaz. This part of the story is hard for me to imagine. I’m getting caught up thinking about Boaz sleeping next to the grain to protect it. I’ll admit I don’t quite understand the context – that people would have to sleep next to the food to protect it but then again, wasn’t a famine mentioned in the first chapter?
Boaz wakes up in the middle of the night, startled, and Ruth is there and asks him to spread his skirt over her - she is basically asking him to marry her. She points out that he is her “near kinsman” or “kinsman redeemer”. My Bible notes say that a Kinsman redeemer’s responsibilities included – redeeming any family property that had changed ownership and also marrying a childless widow so that children could be raised up in her dead husband’s name. For Ruth to initiate this, it was in accordance with levirate law.
How cool is a kinsman redeemer? Someone who steps in when there is no one else to look after us, help us, pay our debts, etc? Jesus is the ultimate kinsman redeemer. He paid our debt. A debt no one else could pay.
When Boaz wakes up and finds Ruth at his feet and figures out she wants him to marry her, he is delighted. He thinks Ruth is the best thing since sliced bread and probably can’t imagine why she would want someone so much older. I think about that. Why would Ruth want to marry him when the scriptures even say there is another relative or “nearer” kinsman redeemer? I think it’s because Ruth knows a good man when she sees one and isn’t about to pass him up.
Boaz proves he is a good man too. He shows in verse 14 that he is concerned about her honor and reputation. He wants to protect her.
My favorite part to the story so far? I love verse 18 – it says that Boaz “will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day”. I picture Boaz getting up that next morning and rushing to get dressed. Imagine him grinning from head to toe and almost running around to settle the matter of marrying Ruth. That’s the kind of man little girls dream of. Men who can’t wait to be their husband, to protect them, provide for them, be their friend and to love them more than anyone else.
The more I read this book, the more beautiful it becomes.
On that note, I want to share the words to a song. Why? No reason other than this song has been in my head all week – literally - and I feel led to share it. I’m trying to learn how to follow when led. Not as easy as it sounds but I’m sure God has a reason for wanting you to know this song. For me, I love that no one loves me the way He loves me. A little background to the song - we sing it at church but it’s been a long time since and wasn’t even one of my favorites – until now. Now I love it.
Several mornings ago, I was reading in Job (sorry I dropped the ball on posting “Follow me through the Bible – told you it’s been crazy busy) and the words to this song randomly popped into my head. It had been so long ago that I had heard it; I couldn’t remember most of the lyrics. Like I said, it wasn't one of my favorites at that time so the fact that it came up HAD to be God. I had to Google the two lines I could remember and that led to me finding the song and adding it to the playlist at the side if you want to listen to it. I still cannot get the song out of my head.
I know it may sound a bit odd but this seems to be a familiar thing between God and me. I’ll be reading my Bible and random words to a song that has NOTHING to do with the text, will pop into my head. I’ll go around for the next 3 or 4 days singing that song. It’s like God has His own mp3 hooked up to my brain. (I can’t sing - even a little so this just proves that God loves a joyful heart.) The best part to this little side story of mine is this…….My church has three services on Sunday morning and one on Saturday night. Our church just doesn’t have enough seating so we’ve expanded to four weekend services. Once in a blue moon, Kent and I will take the boys to the Saturday night service instead of Sunday. I like Sunday better because I’m a creature of habit and the Saturday night service has a different praise and worship team. It’s a petty reason, I know, but I said I was a creature of habit. Saturday afternoon, Kent and I decided to go to church. The very last song was about to begin and the worship leader began by saying they were going to do a song they had not performed on a Saturday night before - Sunday services had done it but it would be new to Saturday evening people. I knew without a doubt – before that song even played – it would be “Sing My Love”…… and it was. Pretty cool if you ask me.
I don't believe in chance. Chance removes God's hand and I believe firmly God is in control over everything. That brings me back to why did He led me to post this song with this particular chapter? I don't know. He didn't tell me that part. He only told me the part that concerned me. He didn't tell me your part. I do know that He wanted you to know it - and don't read "you" as a generic/general "you". This song was meant for someone who is reading this and I bet it is literally YOU. The "why" is between you and Him.
I don't believe in chance. Chance removes God's hand and I believe firmly God is in control over everything. That brings me back to why did He led me to post this song with this particular chapter? I don't know. He didn't tell me that part. He only told me the part that concerned me. He didn't tell me your part. I do know that He wanted you to know it - and don't read "you" as a generic/general "you". This song was meant for someone who is reading this and I bet it is literally YOU. The "why" is between you and Him.
It’s a great love story song. Maybe God just wants us to know the best love story ever written is the one between us and Him. Maybe? Without a doubt.
Here are the lyrics:
Kim Walker/Jesus Culture – “Sing My Love”
Words could never say the way He says my name
He calls me lovely
No one ever sees the way He looks at me
He sees me holy
Words could never hold this love that burn my soul Heaven holds me, oh heaven holds me
I can't hold my love back from You
I can't hold my love back from You
I've gotta sing, I've gotta sing, sing my love
You would not believe the way He touches me
He burns right through me
And i could not forget every word He said
He always knew me
The earth could never hold this love that burns my soul Heaven holds me oh heaven holds me
I can't hold my love back from You
I can't hold my love back from You
I've gotta sing I've gotta sing, sing my love
I can't hold my praise back from You
I can't hold my praise back from You
I've gotta shout, I've gotta shout, shout my praise
I can't hold my praise back from You
I can't hold my praise back from You
I've gotta shout, I've gotta shout, shout my love
Praise the Lord, Praise the Lord
my soul makes, makes its boast in the Lord
He calls me lovely
No one ever sees the way He looks at me
He sees me holy
Words could never hold this love that burn my soul Heaven holds me, oh heaven holds me
I can't hold my love back from You
I can't hold my love back from You
I've gotta sing, I've gotta sing, sing my love
You would not believe the way He touches me
He burns right through me
And i could not forget every word He said
He always knew me
The earth could never hold this love that burns my soul Heaven holds me oh heaven holds me
I can't hold my love back from You
I can't hold my love back from You
I've gotta sing I've gotta sing, sing my love
I can't hold my praise back from You
I can't hold my praise back from You
I've gotta shout, I've gotta shout, shout my praise
I can't hold my praise back from You
I can't hold my praise back from You
I've gotta shout, I've gotta shout, shout my love
Praise the Lord, Praise the Lord
my soul makes, makes its boast in the Lord
Your turn........

7 comments:
Speaking of songs running through your head ... I can't get "Our God Is An Awesome God" out of my head.
There is such joy in the love story of Ruth and Boaz. It makes me long for that sort of love. Sometimes we miss the mark in our own lives. Thankfully, God is still at work though.
That's a great song Sherry! Isn't it funny the things that get stuck in our brains?
I know what you mean about longing for that kind of love. Marriages are never perfect and I think if we could talk to Ruth, would she say that after a few years of being married to Boaz, she'd complain that he never picked up his socks off the floor or he put the milk jug back in the fridge empty. (smile)
I also like to think about how much God loves me and you and the sacrifice He made for that love. We both have a real "fairy tale" love in that you know?
I enjoy your thoughts. You always bring up a new side that I hadn't considered.
Hugs!
It would be great if marriage was all lollipops and rainbows, but it's not. lol
My Bible perspective comes from taking my faith very personally. I don't very often rely on church doctrine. I think God speaks to my heart and I try to listen.
I love the story of Ruth. It really does touch me.
My class and I thought it was so cool that the kinsman redeemer relationship perfectly mirrors our relationship with Christ, yet Christ is never mentioned in the book.
I agree that sleeping next to your grain as protection for it has its risks. How many people awake from a deep sleep in such a state of awareness that they can fend off a possible thief?
And you have to wonder...had Boaz been praying for Ruth, only to wake up with her literally at his feet one night?
As far as songs go, check out "Day after Day" by Kristian Stanfill, and "Trust in Jesus" by Third Day. And since hideous Valentines Day is Monday, I will be playing "Love Song" (Third Day) during devotions for my class.
Sherry, I've always thought that the fairy tales we read as children give us a false sense of what real love/marriage is about. Take Cinderella for example. A prince and a castle. Really? lol!
I believe like you do - my faith is based on my relationship with God. I believe 100% that the focus should be on a relationship and not a religion.
Kjo, (I LOVE that your nickname kinda sticks here. You'll always be Kjo to me.)
Christ as our kinsman redeemer is a beautiful parallel and it's awesome that your class got that part.
You had me giggling with your comments on the grain/sleep/Ruth at his feet. Cute.
I will look up those songs ASAP.
Kudos on the "hideous Valenetines Day". lol!
Kim, I do think "Sing My Love" is a beautiful song. Thanks for sharing it. This week my mom has been visiting. I told her about this study & during the week Mom & I have enjoyed having some great discussions about Ruth.
Kim & Kjo, I like how you brought out that Jesus was the ultimate kinsman redeemer and how the kinsman redeemer relationship mirrors our relationship with Christ.
Kim, I agree with you, Boaz was probably protecting that grain because of the famine they'd just had. But with him sleeping on the threshing floor with the grain, it gave Ruth the opportunity to go lay down at his feet while he was sleeping there. I suppose if he had been sleeping anywhere else, like in his house that night, she probably wouldn't have felt right slipping through a window & going into his bedroom. That also might not have gone over so well for her reputation had anyone witnessed it.
From this chapter I got that Ruth showed great loyalty to her mother-in-law, and deep devotion to God by listening to Naomi and doing everything she said regarding going to Boaz and asking him to marry her (3:5 Ruth answered to Naomi, "I will do everything you say."
Then when Boaz saw that Ruth wanted to marry him rather than a younger man, Boaz said at verse 3:10, "The Lord bless you...You are showing even greater family loyalty in what you are doing now now than in what you did for your MIL. You might have gone looking for a young man, either rich or poor, but you haven't....I will do everything you ask." Because of Ruth's loyalty, she does become blessed by God in many ways.
Does this mean we should all always listen to our MIL's to be blessed? Hopefully not. Wonder if it was easy for Ruth to listen to Naomi or if she ever questioned what she was asked to do?
Christy! Hey there! It's so good to see you here in the comments (I know you've been faithfully following along each week).
I loved your comment and I loved that not only did you share this study with us, but it was something that you and your mom talked about too. What a great memory you will have.
You brought up a good point - I wonder too if it was easy for Ruth to follow her MIL's advice?
Hugs!
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